boundaries.

To: classmate, friend, or just anyone : If I ever sent you this or if you clicked that little link displayed on my profile/anywhere I placed this, I just want you to know what my boundaries are!! Basically, what stuff you shouldn't cross! (sometimes, I may change/add here too)key stuff :)
Red : all people apply
Blue : classmate, irl friend
Green : mutual


1. Please DO NOT disturb when my status is set to dnd!! It annoys me when you don’t listen!!! (If you keep repeating the same action, I'm getting fed up with you already.) One exception is when I talk to you first.

2. Call me Fay. It's okay if you call me by my deadname at some point, but just you saying it makes me feel uncomfortable. (friend, close friend, classmate wise ; my parents, teachers, relatives are excused.) Do not intereact if you say my deadname on purpose. <3

3. Never call me randomly at times. I'd always think it was some emergency, turns out it wasn't. Next time, PLEASE. JUST PLEAASSEEEEE ASK ME if you want to call me (highly appreciated actually.) and if you ever want to show me something, just take a picture of it.. I will see it either way.. 😓. (*I'm not the type of person to just pick up immediately and talk to you! I only do this around my parents)

4. When I need alone time, I said so. please do not text me/approach me (if face to face) when it's my time.

5. please don't force me/recommend me to draw things that are genuinely concerning. ESPECIALLY WHEN IT $EXUALIZES THE CHARACTER AND CROSSES THE CREATOR'S BOUNDARIES LIKE WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE. (Draw it yourself if you're an artist or maybe even if you aren't an artist. Just don't get those stuff onto me.)


consequence: If you keep breaking my boundaries repeatedly, there's a big chance I'll ignore you, leave you on read, or basically just never talk to you again. :3 (even face to face!) You know who you are, please change your actions. You know better than that.